Nostalgia? Yes, Please, and Thank You!

To begin, I was born in the late 70s, and my formative years were crafted from the excitement and joy of the 80s and launched me into the 90s and 00s with curiosity and an understanding to appreciate your presence. My husband and I grew up in the same timeframe and commemorated similar things, but for different reasons. We enjoy finding similarities and nuances that shape our outlook and grow closer. As we dive deeper into a marital relationship, finding activities to spark conversation and memories is a highlight. In March, we took our date nights/days to the NC Symphony, the Museum of Art, the Planetarium, the city of Old Salem, and a new location, the Lands Between.

The goal of this post is to show a snapshot of nostalgia. I intend to give further insight into the experiences at a later date. 

I have discussed the music of the 80s in other blogs and will bring it up many more times. Buckle up! All kidding aside, a few groups hold unique places in Peter, and I’s a collective being. Genesis is one such band. The two of us secured tickets to Phil Collins’s “Last Domino” tour, which was fantastic. Check out this blog link (Last Domino) for a refreshed look.

We discovered that the NC Symphony chose Phil Collins and Genesis to honor as part of their tribute series, and yes, Peter and I attended proudly. The night was beautiful and exciting. 

NC Symphony

Tribute Program
Setlist
Seated and Ready!

Art of Bloom 2023

The Museum of Art brought The Art of Bloom to life again. To see the art piece reinterpreted through a floral arrangement spoke to my soul. To see the last time we experienced this exhibit, check this blog. 

2021 Art of Bloom

This year’s exhibit brought a wonderful delight to see the fantastic local artist shine from inspiration!

Look, Ma! We’re on tv!
The Matrix has you.
Reflective Labyrinth!
Ah, Venice!

Morehead Planetarium and Science Center

“Would you like to swing on a star?” plays lightly as I recall our trip to the Planetarium. While enjoying a beautiful Sunday afternoon, Peter and I met with his mom and her companion to embrace the stars. Afterward, we conversed and walked around the UNC-Chapel Hill campus, then finally, a quiet bit to eat. I truly love how we date.

Sunday afternoon together

Old Salem, North Carolina

The city of Old Salem and the alluring aroma of bread from a 4th-grade field trip beckoned me to return. Peter and I took a day’s drive to the town and enjoyed the bakery’s sights and smells and the old-world scene! To see the city with adult eyes brought me such joy!

Lunch in Old Salem
Old Salem Treats
OOOh! I wish I were an…

Pi Day

While in grade school, I gravitated toward the beauty of mathematics and sciences. On March 14th, we donned our attire to celebrate the mathematical function and a delicious slice of pie!


Elden Ring

After a year of dedicated video gaming research, I claimed an achievement as I completed the Journey 1 of the Elden Ring. My captivation for this video game extends to my bookshelf and wall decor. After purchasing a strategy guidebook, I found a bonus item that thrilled me. The publisher included a map of the world which I framed and placed next to an academic marker on our walls – a friendly reminder of what I can accomplish. The nostalgic feel and date night relevance ties peters love of computers, my imagination to explore the depths of a world in video game form, and the ability to share in each other’s failures and triumphs as we advanced in the game. Being a Tarnished explorer bares an honor; I did not expect.


Alton Brown: Good Eats Live

Showtime! Beyond The Eats Begins.

I do not consider myself a foodie; however, I love food. Through the years, I have enjoyed many cooking shows, and since being married, my culinary palette has expanded further than I ever thought possible. A favorite personality came to DPAC, and Peter and Carmen had to be there. February 20, 2022, was a clear evening for a fun event.

The date night atmosphere was beautiful, and it was nice that crowds gathered together. The Covid-19 pandemic took a toll on all. While waiting for the show to begin, Peter and I met a lovely couple in the lobby who were Star Trek fans. They noticed Peter’s shirt. I found a cute sundress that would perfectly highlight my new hairdo.

Beyond the Eats was a fantastic show that made me feel we were on Good Eats, the cooking show. From story time to trivia to hot wings, Alton Brown did not disappoint. I adore my long-sleeved shirt commemorating the evening—a perfect way to close out Valentine’s 2022 season.

Beyond The Eats Instagram posting


Valentines 2022

A quiet Date Night dinner

I desired to revisit the indoor picnic scene and settled on creating a cozy space in front of our fireplace. Celebrating love with my husband reminds me that faith never fails. I am surprised and forever grateful he came into my life to show me true love and compassion exist. I face and continue to stand up to many challenges that leave me to question my self-worth, sanity, dreams, and faith. However, the life and love that grows between us encourage me to press forward with plans and build a glorious relationship.

Pillows, petals, lights, ready!

We were taking a moment to design a pace to celebrate, and unwinding played a key role in how we marked the holiday. The setup remained a crucial point in displaying the right level of ambiance. I researched a few helpful tips from the website Pinterest to pull off a dramatic setting for us to enjoy.

Pillow setup for Valentine
The vision is clear for Valentine
Dining by candlelight
The stars shined on the ceiling.

Pumpkin Carving Date Night – 2021

– Carmen Baylies

“It’s Pumpkin Carving Time!”

Kicking off celebrating the harvest season, The Baylies took to an activity that placed us in a festive fall mood. We carved pumpkins. We selected patterns, shared stories, and produced pumpkins that we proudly displayed. 

Coffee table setting set to Halloween tone.
Hi, Honey! Look what I did!
“Do you have enough tape, Carmen?”
The dots outline the feline.
The cemetery coming to life
A spooky tree and bat in a cemetery
A cat in a pumpkin
Carving finished.